Five arguments all couples need to have with Joanna Harrison

In this episode, Kate is joined by therapist, author and former divorce lawyer Joanna Harrison to share expert tips on how to have a healthy argument in relationships, as parents and post-separation.

Released: 19 February 2025
Updated: 8 January 2026
43 MIN
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In this episode, Kate is joined by therapist, author and former divorce lawyer Joanna Harrison to share expert tips on how to have a healthy argument in relationships, as parents and post-separation. 

About the episode:

Kate and Joanna begin by discussing Joanna’s book, Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have And Why The Washing Up Matters (Souvenir Press, £9.99). Joanna explains how key couple differences when it comes to communication, in-laws, daily chores, personal space and sex can all lead to arguments in relationships. Kate and Joanna also explore how these conflicts can manifest between ex-partners and co-parents. Throughout the conversation, they consider each sticking point and give expert tips on how to have healthier, more constructive disagreements. The episode ends with Joanna's communication tips for co-parents, including creating space and time for important decisions and encouraging curiosity about your ex-partner. 

About our guest:

Joanna Harrison is an experienced couple therapist, former divorce lawyer and author of_ Five Arguments All Couples (Need To) Have And Why The Washing Up Matters (Souvenir Press, £9.99)._ She regularly speaks and writes about relationship issues in the media and specialises in supporting couples who are considering separation or going through it. 

More resources:

Learn more about Joanna on her website or purchase her book in your local bookstore or online

You can also read our blog ‘Is it over? Should I leave?’ on our website.

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