Finances
23 September 2026 28 MIN
In brief: myths around pensions and divorce
Pensions are often the biggest asset in a marriage – sometimes bigger than the family home – yet they're the one most people overlook when they separate.
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In this episode, Kate is joined by founder and Master Divorce Coach, Louise Neville, to discuss surviving the family court.
About the episode:
Kate and Louise begin this episode by exploring what we mean by the family court. Louise explains how she ended up there after separating from her husband over unresolved financial and child arrangement issues.
This episode is focused on helping people navigate the family court when they have no other choice. Louise’s detailed explanation of the process for Children Act proceedings is useful in understanding what’s involved if you end up in a dispute when you separate.
Trigger Warning This episode covers content that some listeners might find distressing including poor mental health and abuse.
Organisations who can help:
- Dads Unlimited
- Your local GP
- Mind - mental health charity
- Samaritans - dial 116 123 or text SHOUT to 85258
- YoungMinds Crisis Messenger – for people under 19
- Is your life in danger? - dial 999
- Outside of the UK? Search for help here
About our guests:
Louise founded the company Family Court Survival and supports people emotionally, practically and strategically through the Family Court System In England and Wales. She is a Master Divorce Coach and Professional McKenzie Friend who works in children’s welfare and is at the forefront of everything she does.
More resources:
Get in touch with amicable for information on the legal, financial and children aspects of separation. Book a free 15-minute consultation with an amicable expert through the amicable website.
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